Just remember, when there is an ‘ego’, there is an ‘alter ego’ as well. If God is around, then there is a demon too. There are always two sides to a story. If you think you are right, then you must also understand that the same right makes you a wrong too.
And so if you think you will live a nice little perfect life then it’s going to be as imperfect and as crazy as it can be. Don’t waste your time looking for the right person, the more right he/she is, the more wrong he/she will be. Just go with the flow, close your eyes, eat your soup and smell it later.